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2 WAYS TO MAKE DIFFICULT DECISIONS

We know that we make important decisions everyday and we have established that we make some of these decisions without even spending a moment to think about it. That’s OK, but sometimes, we are faced with more difficult decisions and we become afraid to make a choice. I’m going to show you a few steps on making the right decisions the easy way.

  1. HAVE A GOAL

The first step is to have a goal. If you make a decision to read an hour every day, it could be that our goal is to pass your exams or to know 100 new words or to gather as much knowledge as you can. Having a goal helps your final decision fall into place for you.

  1. KNOW YOUR OPTIONS

The next thing is to know all your options. I always write down all my options even if it is only a YES or NO decision. Writing own gives you more clarity and helps you put things in focus. You must explore all of them and decide which one best fits your ultimate goal. After this, you consider all the cons, disadvantages and pitfalls of your decision and after that, confidently take your decision.

Why not try these suggestions during a difficult decision making process and leave a comment telling me if it helped you.

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5 Fast Facts

  1. THERE IS A RISE IN THE NUMBER OF FARMERS RAISING DUCKS IN BANGLADESH. THIS IS BECAUSE DURING FLOODS, WHICH ARE QUITE COMMON IN THE COUNTRY, DUCKS DO NOT GET DROWNED!

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  1. DID YOU KNOW THAT SINGAPORE GAINED INDEPENDENCE AGAINST ITS WILL? IN AUGAUST 1965, THE PARLIAMENT OF MALAYSIA VOTED THEM OUT OF THE MALAYSIAN FEDERATION. THIS FORCED THEM TO ESTABLISH THEIR OWN SOVEREIGM REPUBLIC.

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  1. DID YOU KNOW THAT VENUS IS THE ONLY PLANET IN THE SOLAR SYSTEM THAT ROTATES CLOCKWISE? ALL OTHER PLANETS ROTATE ANTI-CLOCKWISE.

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  1. DID YOU KNOW THAT APPLES FLOAT ON WATER? THIS IS BECAUSE THEY ARE MADE OF 25% AIR!

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  1. DID YOU KNOW THAT YOU CANNOT TALK AND BREATHE IN AT THE SAME TIME? TRY IT AND SEE!

SOURCE: Kidsworldfun.com

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HOW TO CHOOSE THE BEST CAREER

It’s the beginning of the term and you are happy to be promoted to Senior Secondary School. All of a sudden, everyone starts asking what career you want to pursue and they begin telling you that you must make that all too important decision as it’ll determine whether you end up in an Art Class or a Science class.

It’s quite okay to not have a clue, that’s why I’m here to help. I’ll give you a general guide on what you should look out for when deciding if you want to go to an Art or a Science class. Sorry to disappoint but this is not determined by if you’re failing at Mathematics or English. That’s something you can remedy by putting in extra effort.

The first step is to make a list of your hobbies and interests. Divide this list into two- the Creative and the Scientific. So for instance, if you love to draw, paint, sing, and write, that goes under creative. If you love solving puzzles, doing research, making things, fiddling with electricity etc that goes under the Scientific. With this list of things you love doing, ask yourself, “What am I best at? “What can I see myself doing for the rest of my life? What part of the list is longer; the Scientific or the Creative? That should give you a general guide on what you love doing. This list also guides the subjects you take interest in. Because you might love Literature and find it difficult to understand the formulas found in Chemistry. It’s also okay to love Literature and Chemistry, there’s room for you in the social science class.

The second step is ask someone more knowledgeable, like a guidance counselor or even your parents about what is involved in different jobs and careers. They can help you with what you don’t know about career descriptions and speak to you about the perceived advantages and disadvantages. Since they know you so well, they can also suggest some careers they believe are best suited to your personality.

It might seem like a technical process but it’s not that difficult to know what you already love. If you already know what career you want to pursue, great! This will only help you get to know yourself more. If you feel you made a wrong decision, do not be afraid to approach your School’s Counselor to help. I wish you good luck as you make this important decision!

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November Newsletter

It’s great to have you back this month! I’m happy to know you’re working hard to succeed in your schools and everywhere you find yourself. If you browse though our website, you’ll see that great changes have been made to make it more accessible and interesting. Visit the About page to understand our motives for doing what we do and the Blog to read more interesting topics. If you want to contact us, feel free to use the Contact Us page and we’ll reply in a jiffy.

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After our last talk on Technology and how it affects our day to day lives, I thought we should talk about Decision Making. I chose this because at every point, we make important decisions that directly relate and correlate to our rate of success.

Now, because of how fast our mind works and how fast the day goes, we do not know we are making several important decisions every minute. Like the decision to speak when spoken to, or to cross the road at a certain time, or to eat rice instead of beans, or to play instead of read. These are important decisions that form our day and life but we hardly give any thought to them. The same way we make these decisions is the same way we make important decisions like what higher institution to study at, what course to read, how to succeed at it. So everything we’re talking about is going to be centered on making healthy decisions at every level of your life.

You can visit the blog to read more about this and leave any comments or questions you have. I can’t wait to talk to you again next month.

Goodluck!